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Came across this line in an article:
when there is communication, there will be no confrontations

Communication is one of the keys to a successful relationship. I've something to share.. =)

Get winning out of your mind. So many couples claim to have tried communication, but it does not seem to work. If this is your case, then the best thing would be to slow down, calm down and take a few steps back. Perhaps communication is not working for your relationship, but what method of communication are you using? You see, communication itself cannot be the problem or the ineffective ingredient, because communication is the main key to a healthy relationship, so it must be the way you and your partner are communicating. When you or your partner talks to each other, do one or both of you talk to win the conversation, or to actually reach a level of understanding of each other’s needs and wants? Believe it or not, it is very common for people to focus on being right and trying to convince their partner of seeing things their way, instead of just sharing what they think and feel so their partner can understand what they mean and what they need.

Listening is so important if you truly wish to accomplish good communication that will improve your relationship. Are you really listening to what your partner is saying to you, or are you waiting to get things off you chest and make your points? Listening may sound like an easy enough thing to do, but many confuse it with hearing. Hearing what your partner is saying versus listening to them, are indeed very different. Listening involves true dedication and your full attention to the words your partner is serving to you, as well as the tones and expressions that go along with those words. Listening means that you are interested in learning more about what your partner is making an effort to tell you and making the emotional connection needed in order to achieve your relationship goals together. Keep in mind that when in a relationship, all communication between partners has to be open, honest, non-judgmental and patient, if you are to succeed and maintaining a happy and healthy relationship

Communication is not so complicated, once you understand what the right way communicating is, and of course- what methods of communication works for you and your communication best. Effective communication cannot happen on its own or with the efforts of only one person. Both you and your partner have to be open and willing to work as a team on improving the way you communicate, so that you both can enhance your relationship skills and build a relationship where you both will have an understanding of who you are as individuals and what you both need and want. Just remember to stay real with yourself and avoid painting a foggy and falsified picture- so that you will never be caught off guard with nay-painful surprises or stressful misunderstandings.


mehie appeared on 07 July 2009 @ 11:07 AM

life's little imperfections

When you hope that some things will go away, are you sure?
When you hope that someone will disappear forever, are you sure?

Slow down, life is a journey, not a race.
Should you take time to enjoy the little moments in life,
or race your way to the day your heart stops?

What are we always rushing for,
looking forward to?

For time to pass quickly,
so that we'll grow old and die
before we could realise ?

mehie appeared on 14 April 2009 @ 10:34 AM


An optimist sees an opportunity in every calamity.
A perssimist sees a calamity in every opportunity.


mehie appeared on 08 April 2009 @ 11:08 AM

Ageing in Style

Nobody grows old merely by living a number of years.
We grow old by deserting our ideals.
Years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul.

- American poet, Samuel Ullman (1840-1924)


mehie appeared on 05 December 2008 @ 8:12 AM